Destination Wedding

CEREMONY SITES

Seating Arrangements at the Ceremony

For seating at the ceremony, there are two options:  if parents are friends and they are not remarried, they can sit side-by-side in the front pew.  Otherwise, the parent you have lived with would sit in the front row with his or her spouse, and the other parent sits in the second row with his or her spouse.  Beyond that, your step-parents' involvement is up to you.  You can honor your dad's wife by having her do a reading or, if that makes your mom uncomfortable, give her a less prominent role, like manning the guest book.

Remember the Marriage License

Don’t forget to bring the marriage-license packet to the wedding!  Assign this task to a trusted friend, family member or your Consultant/Coordinator.  A ceremony is not legal and complete without this.

Make Your Ceremony Special

The officiant can help to make your wedding ceremony meaningful for both of you.  Ask how you can personalize the ceremony—writing your own vows, selecting special songs, etc.

Ring-Bearer Pillow

Practice tying the rings to the pillow so that they will stay on during the walk down the aisle, but will slip off easily during the ceremony.

Check All The Rules

Make sure you know all the rules and restrictions about the ceremony site.  Some have strict rules about photographs or videotaping, candles and music.

Obtaining a Marriage License in Oregon

You must be at least 17 years of age or have written consent from a parent. No exams or blood tests are required. Cost is $60 with a three-day waiting period. License is valid for 60 days.