Remember the Marriage License
Don’t forget to bring the marriage-license packet to the wedding! Assign this task to a trusted friend or family member. A ceremony is not legal and complete without this

Make Your Ceremony Special
The minister or priest can help to make your wedding ceremony meaningful for both of you. Ask how you can personalize the ceremony—writing your own vows, selecting special songs, etc.

Ring-Bearer Pillow
Practice tying the rings to the pillow so that they will stay on during the walk down the aisle, but will slip off easily during the ceremony.

Plan How To Start The Music
Prelude music is a nice touch as the guests are being escorted into the church. To start the processional music, have someone signal the musicians at the appropriate time.

Approve Your Music Selections With Clergy
Make sure your clergyman is aware of your music selections. Ask whether there are any restrictions on music. Some ministers or priests insist on approving all the music prior to the ceremony. Your favorite love song may seem offensive to the clergyman; neither you nor your musicians will enjoy any last-minute confrontations.

Check All The Rules
Make sure you know all the rules and restrictions about the ceremony site. Some have strict rules about photographs or videotaping, candles and music.

Obtaining a Marriage License in Oregon
You must be at least 17 years of age or have written consent from a parent. No exams or blood tests are required. Cost is $60 with a three-day waiting period. License is valid for 60 days.